A summary of Dr.Sobah talk

Assalamualaikum.

Alhamdulillah... Allah makes us met together. Face to face in a sharing session. An ukhti muslimin. :)

كوني قدوة لا تكوني فتنة

Jadilah qudwah dan janganlah kamu menjadi fitnah.

A subhanallah masya-Allah, impressive fruitful talk. Eventhough I was sleepy before. But listening to her talk (in arabic of course) woke me up. I'll write them in a note form to simplify the talk.

1-We should be grateful as Allah has choose us to be in this path. As a ukhti daieyah. And we must pray, O'Allah... dont replace us with another person to do this noble job.

2-Being a daieyah is not easy. Only strong people can carry the message and spread this deen in this world.

3-We choose this path, and we should never be regretted. Whosoever do this job, have a total blessing throughout their lives. In everything. In study, in marriage, in motherhood, in career, in this world and hereafter.

And who is better in speech than one who invites to Allah... (41:33)

4-The best way of dakwah is through qudwah. لسان الحل أقوى من لسان الكلام. Action speaks louder than words. And dakwah should be done with hikmah. The two pillars of hikmah is al-'ilm(knowledge) and al-hilm(kindness). Dont be rush, because this is a long path.

5-Ukhti daieyah shouldn't and must not escape from classes. Because a daieyah should perform well in their studies. Thats the most crucial things. In our universities we meet people, and that is one of the chances of doing dakwah.

6-An ukhti daieyah should settle her house before going out. Because her house is her own responsibility. While, going out to do dakwah can be done by men also. Dr.Sobah give an example here. If she had a liqa in the morning after fajr, then she'll cook in the midnight. And she will also do 'hagah helwa' for her children before going out.

7-An ukhti daieyah should choose akh daie as a husband. If not, she must explain her responsibility in dakwah to her future husband.

8-An ukhti daieyah must not, ever not talk to their husbands about the other akhawat's secret. Even the members of the liqa, the content.

9-An ukhti daieyah should never ever give up from doing dakwah after marriage. Because we live in dakwah until our last breath. Dakwah is on the top of the list in our lives.

10-A mother carrying her child to the 5th floor of the building just to attend her liqa' is doing a superb jihad.

11-Akhawat ad-daieyah always and always have problem with ukhuwah. It is a worldwide problems. In Egypt or Malaysia, the same. Because thats the nature of a women. And this problem must be cured in order to be a successful daieyah. As daieyah should have a clean heart.

12-The best way to do dakwah fardiah is to win the mad'us' hearts. Then they'll gain trust in you.

13-An ukhti daieyah should not go out from the house if she's having problem with her husband. And she must obey her husband not because of her husband himself. But thats the way how she can gain Allah's blessing.

14-The difference between nisa' muslimin and akhawat muslimin is their purpose of life. The nisa' muslimin usually aim for a rich, good looking husband, living in castle and other worldly pleasure. While akhawat muslimin only aim for Allah. Allahu ghayatuna, wa hayati kulluha Lillah. Akhawat muslimin only choose husbands that will hold their hand to the jannah.

Ikhwan Muslimin... and we have here Akhawat Muslimin.

Hidup dalam tarbiyah yang penuh masam, pahit, manis. But after you pass the stages, and looking back, you'll only find the sweetness.

p/s:Tak akan sama dengan hidup tanpa tarbiyah yang tersusun. Ini satu pengakuan dari hati. Tak akan sama ikatan ukhuwah yang dijalin kerana 'sekelas' dan yang terjalin kerana 'jalan dakwah'. Terasa rugi kerana tidak mengenali jalan ini lebih awal.

alhamdulillah untuk nikmat yang paling besar ini. :)