Weird 2

Assalamualaikum warahmatullah.

Here again. Alhamdulillah. Actually I was re-writing my tajwid notes. eheh. But not finished yet due to some phosphenes appeared. So, I stop and facing my lappy. :P

Just mere thing came across my mind. Clicking the Facebook, where all sins and maksiat piles together. heh. Truth isn't it? :D

Lately, I have to manage multiple FB accounts and groups. Hence, I rarely update my FB or stalking through FB. Still, no doubt I open FB all the time. Just maybe FB no more seen as 'somewhere-to-spend-and-waste-your-time-when-you-feel-so-bored'. Indeed, its now becoming my 'workplace'. Well, just understand the word 'work' itself. Means no more playing around, no more wasting time pointlessly, no more go through pictures or profiles.

I just read what on my feeds, before doing my tasks. After finishing the tasks, reread the feeds again. And done. 

Sounds good isnt it? ;) I think so.

Its just tonight the hormon seems want to talk so much. eheh. The imbalance one perhaps. 

One verses came across. I dont remember exactly the verse. But its the one that Allah says to Ummahatul Mukminin, if they want the worldly pleasure like other women of dunya, then they can go for it. But if they want the eternal pleasure, then Allah will provide the best for them. 

It just a mere thought. A woman's thought. Plus reminded me of what I read from 'The Ideal Muslimah'. Women get easily envy to women around them. 

Named it. 

1-When you see others' spouses are so good looking, and look at yours... oh my spouse is just 50-50. Not that handsome. Average, let say.

2-When you see others spouses buying jeweleries for their wives. Then you know that your husband cant afford it. Again, you talk to yourself again. Or maybe cursing your husband. Or questioning your husband if he ever loved you whatnot.

3-When you see others buying new furniture for their house. Then you starts again, it has been so long since you change your curtain.

4-When you see others have bright/tanned skin (that you ever dream you had it). Oh... how I wish I was as fair and beautiful as her.

5-When you see others have make up on their faces, wearing expensive glittering clothes and looking soooo 'vogue'. And you look at yourself, questioning why dont you wear bright make up, 5-miles-can-be-smelled-perfumes, or why when you walked pass by nobody ever whistling to you or calling you 'hey beautiful'.

6-When you open your FB, you see those girls giving the so called 'sexy' pose, or even taking pictures with men in an appropriate manner. Then you read the comments, saying the girls beautiful, sexy, gorgeous, attractive etc. And yours? No men ever comments or even told you that.

Told you. The world is just temporary. And I want to remind myself again here. Yes, again. Undoubtedly, I am a woman. The thought comes to me too. Sometimes. Yet, alhamdulillah. Allah still guides me and protects me. :)

1-Perhaps you like the 'good looking' part. And you cant tolerate the 'BAD HABIT' part in their spouses. So why questioning the best person Allah sent to you to be your Imam? :)

2-This is what Allah warns the Ummahatul Mukminin. Why prefer the 'temporary' jeweleries while you can choose the 'eternal' one by be patient with your husband and serve him the best you can? :D

3-Have you ever read the history? Have you care about your brothers and sisters in other part of the globe? They dont even have a house to live in. Then why bother about the accessories-furniture? :-<

4-When you leave this world, you will leave behind your body also. You cant have your tanned-barbecued skin in barzakh. So... still think it is important to question why Allah makes you a lil bit darker? (:|

5-You dont look 'vogue', because you're 'modest'. A modest muslimah. And thats the best value of Islam. Modesty. The guys dont even dare to whistle around because they respect you more than the one they crept their eyes on. You're what they ever dreamt to be the mother of their child and partner till the end of this world. But the men were as us women, can hope, but doesnt mean they can have you. Good men for good women, vile men for vile women. And vice versa. Why doubting Allah's promise? [-(

6-Ah! Face-book should be change into Sins-book or Maksiat-book also I think. Use your time wisely. If Allah ignore His servant, He will make His servant busy with what doesnt concern with him. Studying Facebook is one of them I think. ;) You waste your time pointlessly and seeing maksiat. Adding black dots more and more upon your heart.

Just pondering some. Reminding some. Reflecting some. 

So that we may benefit from it. Read the Quran, and if you have time, grab The Ideal Muslimah by Muhammad Ali Hashimi. A good book. :D

Its weird when Allah has promise us something eternal, we still want to choose the temporary pleasure. Hmm....

Till then. 

May Allah bless. :)