Manners

A: Nak pergi kelas ke ni?

B: Aah. (Ni junior aku ke ni?)

A: Kalau kita nak mengaji boleh ke? Kita tak reti mengaji suara slow.

B: Boleh. Boleh.

A: Kita belajar haram kalau baca Quran suara kuat kalau orang tengah tidur. Tu yang kita minta izin dulu.

B: Tak apa. Bacalah. (Oh... dia ni memang orang yang beradab)

Two different situations. 

Ended at the same title 'manner'.

The first one is quite shocking. I dont know. Well, yes we're different from each other. Yet, at least if you know that you're talking with your senior. Confirmed. As she has different class. And you're the 1st year student. At least, introduce yourself, or ask your senior's name. AT LEAST. Its a common sense dear juniors. :) But its not specifically for juniors. Applied to seniors also. Applied to whoever called themselves, muslim, mukmin.

But again, most people lost their common sense nowadays. Hence, its not weird anymore to meet 'kurang hajor' people around. Righto? Nauzubillah min zalik.

I once read at somebody's status on facebook. Edited coz I dont remember exactly the sentence. Yet the meaning is somehow the same.

'Budak-budak zaman sekarang ni, masuk universiti. Belajar sampai PhD. Tapi benda yang paling penting mereka lupa nak belajar dan diajar, ADAB'.

I love to be with 'well-mannered people'. Usually I dont hesitate to pay them a visit, and even stay at their house. Because even in 'a-so-small-tiny-matter', they do it in a very pleasant way. To be honest. :D Even to read Quran with a loud voice. So what do you think about, 'meaningless chats', laughing sampai bergegar satu rumah, shouting while we know someone is sleeping nearby. I bet it is much more Haram. Correct me if I'm wrong. ;)

Just some ramblings. In a so very minor 'subtopic' of 'Manners'. I know there are much more. Tak masuk bab masuk rumah, adab bertamu and so on. May be we can read and study more about it in Seerah. :D

And yes, I'm still learning. I needs practice. So far, I tried my best. But still need a lot of practice. haih. A lot!

'Even benda yang tampal-tampal kat meja ukhti kita, kata-kata semangat yang dia tampal kat dinding pun kita tak ada hak nak tengok. Sebagai muslimah, muaddabatun, benda yang ada kat skrin laptop ukhti kita pun kita tak boleh tengok. Itulah yang Islam ajar. Itulah privacy yang memang Islam jaga.'

Thats what my ukht said not so long time ago. And its like debush! To me myself for the first time I heard of it, because I'm full of curiosity. But yes, I dont like people do that to me. So I need to 'ghaddul basar' also. Righto dear-self? :)

Subhanallah.
And its truer than truer, Rasulullah tu memang diutuskan untuk menyempurnakan akhlak kita. ;)

Sorry for abundant quotations. These quotations are my self-reminder. Up till this moment. May Allah bless them for giving such impacts on me.

Dear readers, visitors, may Allah grant you jannah for your 'loyalty' of stepping by here. Either leaving traces or not. You never know how glad I am to see my stats keep increasing. May Allah pleases you with all good rewards from Him for your presence and visit, indeed pleasing a nobody ukht like me. Alhamdulillah. :D Eventhough its just a 'no-where-not-a-thing-entah-pape-space'. :P

And now you know why this blog hasn't been updated for quite a long time. heh ;) the last entry I typed and posted on the spot was the last entry on the last month-October. The others are 'scheduled' on purpose. For the matter of  time, internet, health and much more to be listed. Enough ramblings. ;)

Ouh please and please dont forget to pray for me. I have to reach my target. Dah nak masuk bulan 12, end of 2010. O la la~

p/s: Its winter. And my immune system...hmmm. As usual. Kaffarah. Pray for me also. :) And the internet. Hoping Mr. I be home soon.

There is no illness that afflicts me more beloved to me than fever: it enters every part of me and [because of it] Allah the Mighty and Sublime gives every part of me its share of reward. [Reported by al-Bukhari]

Gambar tiada kena mengena dengan entry. :P