Weirdos

ACHTUNG: What is written below is totally random. You may continue reading if you want. Or leave if you wish to.

Life is the best teacher. Yes, indeed. And this was about the people I met, I dealt with, I saw and I heard. Sounds suspense.huh?

1st

When people respect you for the very-superb-avalanche-knowledge you have. And so do I. You can talk about this deen so and so. Masya-Allah... talk about sirah, talk about fiqh, talk about syariah and all the branches of Islam. Anything. Name it. You're the master.

And you started manipulating the hadeeth and holy verses you knew, plus all nonsense(for me) facts for your personal sake. For the thing that most people dont know that it is prohibited. But you pretend as if you dont know it is prohibited OR trying to change it into 'lawful' thing. Oh masya-Allah...such a good speaker.

But when it comes to practice, NULL. So sorry. Yes, dont judge a book by its cover. Eventhough I was trying hard not to be judgemental, sorry. I failed.

Honestly, I would go back to the classic arabic idiom. Like a tree without fruit. (learnt this from the insha'-karangan in lower form probably. Nostalgic). Whatever the title people gave to you. 'Dato, Teacher, Syeikh, Ustaz, Muallim and all good-honourable title'. Sorry, you just lost my respect. Lisanul hal aqwa min lisanul kalam. Enough manipulating the hadeeth, the Holy Verses. Enough. It makes me sick. And I'm afraid for you. I'm afraid what you're going to answer in front of The Almighty.

2nd

The matter of making assumption. Why not asking? Why do you easily jump into conclusion for the things you're not sure with. Hey... do you recite the Quran? Its stated like this 'O you who believe, you shall avoid any suspicion, for even a little bit of suspicion is sinful.'

Yes its hard to ask. But thats the most preferable, the most 'saleem' way. Ask, to know the real situation. Learn from the history. Saidatina Aisyah was accused having affair with Safwan al-Muattal because of this bad suspicion.

Hey, wake up! Ouh seriously... I dont like this. Very much. Dont jump into conclusion. You might spreading the false-but-having-very-very-bad-effect news by escaping this step. For example, how come you accuse the person brought woman into his room or doing adultery when you found woman clothes in his room. Might be, his sisters' or somebody else. Might be the clothes of his neighbour fall on his clothes line. Ya Rabb.... ask! Please ask and investigate. This is not a small matter. NEVER!

3rd

Accepting each other. Ouh... this is also a very big issue for me. Seems like I'm going to talk about 'bait muslim'? Yes, but from the view, what I see and learnt. And also what I understand.

I've to admit, yes I've been asked 'how is your dream guy?' or any version of it. I got from the classic version to the latest version. From both gender. But I'm not going to talk about its answer.

Marriage isnt a small matter, and never was. Its about adding branches to your current link. And its all about HUGE responsibility. Its the matter of finding the one you can live with to the end of your life, to the jannah. Its the matter of knowing each other and the matter of trying to accept the contrary from what you have.

Please, dont ever dream about having a perfect person, because you never reach perfection. And dont ever change the 'nature' of that person. You're actually not accepting him/her as he/she is. Yes, you can try to change the bad habit of your partner, but you can't ever change the nature, the quality within your partner. If you do so, I would say-Sorry, go find others.

And relationship is always two-sided road. Not a one-way. Or else, you'll stuck at the end of the road. If your partner try to listen, then there're times for you to sit and listen too. You cant always talking. You cant always demand him/her to do so and so. Allah created men and women differently. If you dislike anything, talk in a 'hikmah' acceptable way. He's a man and she's a woman. Or at least, respect him/her for he/she is a human being, having a heart, having multiple feelings. Respect others first before you gain respect from others.

Men and women are using the different dictionary of life. Thats the fact you've to accept.

End of issues.

Again, I'm not judging anybody good or bad. As I am nobody to judge anybody. I'm not perfect either. The Judge is and only Allah. I called this people; weirdos. But these weirdos taught me about many things in life. And I should be grateful for their existence. Without them, I know nothing.

I need to go back facing my ENT books. Pray for us for the coming exam 7 April.

p/s:Ignore the grammatical mistakes. haha. Trying to polish my-getting-worse english. This post is for public(any visitor of this blog.ahaks!) reading, regardless who you are. Its my personal point of view. If we're on the same boat, ahlan. If not, you're free to talk.